Adam Fletcher, 35 said he wrote the tweet almost a dozen times but then stepped back from publishing it. ‘I’ve been scared to say it forever’.
A Californian man has seen his coming out tweet go viral.
Adam Fletcher, 35, of Orange County, works in the gaming industry. On 30 December he posted a tweet to reveal he is gay.
‘I’ve typed this tweet maybe 10+ times this year because I haven’t figured out a proper way of saying it…’ he began.
‘I’m gay.
‘I’ve been scared to say it forever, but damn does it feel good to say now!
‘Close friends and some co-workers know, but the general public doesn’t.’
‘Very conservative’ family
The original tweet has been liked over 23,000 times and prompted thousands of comments. Fletcher went on to explain why he’s previously struggled talking about his sexuality. And why he wanted to make it public.
‘Why am I saying this publicly now? It’s tough to say. I’ve had a ton of fear from friends and work to not say anything. Fear that friends would shun me. Fear that it would hold me back career wise as bad apples always exist on a tree.
‘And of course the fear of my family. Will I ever tell them? Time will tell.
‘Everyone has told me that they will understand but I know many don’t know them like I do. Right now, they are very conservative and I have a heavy fear of losing my family from my life.
‘I still love them despite not seeing eye to eye and I can’t have that empty spot in my life without them.
‘What made me okay with this saying now? The two things I feared… work and friends made me feel okay.
Support from friends and work
‘I have a close group of friends that have been incredibly supportive,’ he says. ‘These wonderful people have given me more confidence and support. I’ve been able to lean against them through this when family wasn’t an option.’
Last January, Fletcher took on the role of esports product manager with Blizzard Entertainment.
‘As for work… I’ve been employed at some very great companies but Blizzard is another level,’ he goes on to say.
‘Blizzard and the culture of the company is super open and welcoming that I feel I can actually be me. It’s great and I’m thankful for it. Blizzard and the people there are amazing.
‘So here I am. I’m sure people will be against it, but it feels good to just say it.
‘I am gay. And now I’m damn happy.
‘Sorry if you’re against it.
‘Thanks for those that are supportive.
‘And for those who may be in the same situation…
‘Things really do get better.’