Yesterday we did a small overview of basic gay male sex information for any male wanting to experience their first gay sexual relationship. Now we are about to get serious and talk like real adults. Gay male sex is immersed in labels and roles. The first basic sex question any gay male want to ask themselves is “ Am I top, bottom or versatile?”
With this new breed of gay male coming out, the realization that there is more than sexual positions involved in gay sex is slowly seeping into the gay male community but old sexual habits are very hard to break. When you get online with sites like Adam4Adam or BBRT, gay men are going to ask you are you top or bottom. If you decide you are a bottom, which means you like to be penetrated, here are some good starting tips.
With this new breed of gay male coming out, the realization that there is more than sexual positions involved in gay sex is slowly seeping into the gay male community but old sexual habits are very hard to break. When you get online with sites like Adam4Adam or BBRT, gay men are going to ask you are you top or bottom. If you decide you are a bottom, which means you like to be penetrated, here are some good starting tips.
Cleaning yourself out is very important. Unfortunately, being a gay man means that these concepts are not going to be taught to you by your parents but here is the skinny. You want to find some douching products preferably a vinegar product and also enema products to help get as much bowl waste out of you as possible.
It is going to take more than one time for a thorough cleaning so hopefully you know you can fill the bottle with warm water to repeat the steps over and over again. Now a days shower heads come with the extra hookups and line so all you have to do is flip a switch to have an effective cleaning device.
Again, you keep repeating the steps over and over. Sometimes it takes fives time maybe it takes twenty. It all depends on the individual. Just don't clean to the point where you hurt yourself because it is possible to do damage with over-douching.
It is going to take more than one time for a thorough cleaning so hopefully you know you can fill the bottle with warm water to repeat the steps over and over again. Now a days shower heads come with the extra hookups and line so all you have to do is flip a switch to have an effective cleaning device.
Again, you keep repeating the steps over and over. Sometimes it takes fives time maybe it takes twenty. It all depends on the individual. Just don't clean to the point where you hurt yourself because it is possible to do damage with over-douching.
Remember, the anus and rectum was designed for things to come out of it, not for things to be plunged into it with full force right off the bat. No matter how many times you clean yourself, some waste may come out but no man should be embarrassed about that. For a lot of top guys it maybe a turn off but if they can’t understand that accidents will happen and make a big hopping deal about it, then those are not the type of guys you want to deal with in the first place.
The problem is that a lot of gay men want to be porn-stars or want you to be a porn-star. Porn-stars get paid for having sex so there will be no problems during recording sessions when you see a famous bottom taking a very large penis. If there are any problems it will just gets edited it out but believe this, that bottom has much practice underneath their belt. It’s not like they started out taking large penises in those super erotic shots. Understand you have to have sex that is comfortable for you, especially if you are a bottom. If you are not happy, the top guy will not be happy and it is a bust all the way around.
This is going to be a long series because we have not even touched the surface of bottom positions but we will get there tomorrow.
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