One puff, two puffs, three puffs… YASS!
What is it about marijuana that makes everything interesting? You see the intentions of people, the fabulousness in the air as you feel it brush beneath your arms, the complexities of food as you taste it in every bite – it heightens your senses to the point where you feel like you truly “get” what it’s all about. Having sex while you’re high on pot is pretty much the same idea, and believe it or not, it’s supported by scientific studies.
In ancient texts and medicine, marijuana has been cited as an aphrodisiac. Dr. Lester Grinspoon, Harvard professor known as the grandfather of modern medicinal cannabis research has said: “I believe there are three broad categories of usefulness for this remarkably nontoxic drug. Two of them are quite available, namely, recreation and medicine. But there’s a third category, the capacity to enhance a variety of human experiences. There’s one that comes to everybody: the capacity to turn an ordinary dish into an extraordinary culinary experience. And the second is sexual experience.”
Marijuana makes your body feel great, with the proper amount of course. The CB1 receptor improves tactile sensations and general euphoria, which ultimately effects sexual arousal. High sex takes you out of your head and, in fact, conjoins your intellect (the brain) with your intuition (your emotional state) in beautiful ways. Two men who love each other and choose to have sex while high might actually be creating a mental bookmark inside their brains – one that keeps them attached to each other unconsciously.
It’s hard for some people to grasp that there are multiple strains of marijuana, which matters greatly in how your body experiences it. The balance of THC and other chemicals in each strain will alter the results. Our bodies react differently to all kinds of combinations. Finding one that works for you will ultimately bring out the best in your experience, should you so choose to have it.
Drunk sex isn’t the same as having high sex – believe me I know. Not only are they completely different feelings for the most part, but pot relaxes aspects in your body that alcohol doesn’t, making it more erotic to feel your man’s strong hands on your skin. When you smoke with your boyfriend before having sex, it has the potential to remind yourself of the intention behind it rather than the goal of simply getting off.
Marijuana also changes your experience with time. It makes things seemingly move slower than it actually does, which can make you interpret a 15-second orgasm as 45-seconds long. That doesn’t mean you won’t also have lazy sex if you smoke too much. Trust me, that ain’t pretty – my ex used to get so high sometimes having sex with him was like having sex with a couch.
Our country views weed as a drug only used by hippies and is often the first step in “experimenting” with other dangerous drugs. While it might be true in some cases, for the most part marijuana is merely a victim to the media’s labeling game. We hear someone smokes weed, we instantly categorize them as lazy or trashy or stoners or unproductive. As someone who’s traveled around the world to places like Amsterdam (where pot is legal), I can tell you that this is a typical American prototype we’ve invented – no different than the stereotype gay men face every day. Pot is another way to relax after a long day of work, or a way to socialize with friends at a party or out and about. Like a glass of wine, its only purpose is to enhance your experience.
For gay guys, having a bit of pot before sex can be fantastic. I’m not here to try and convince you by any means, but at some point in life, you have to ask yourself “What am I so afraid of?” Maybe it’s my own personality (I’ll do anything once), but I can never trust someone else’s word other than my own when it comes to sexual experimentation. As far as having sex while you’re high on pot, the scariest thing you have to fear is that you’ll like it way too much.
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