Sex is all about the tease, honey, and gay porn stars know how to do just that. It doesn’t matter which way, great sex is always a result of incredible tension unleashed. If you want the power of a porn star, you need to find that hidden gem we call fantasy.
I love unleashing my inner porn star with my man–he does too. It’s not as hard as you think. All you need to do is trust in the appeal you as a man already possess. We all offer something special, it’s just a matter of finding what it is:
1) Challenge him with surprises.
He might think you’re going to be a certain way in bed based on your personality on the streets, so the first thing you ought to do is surprise him right off the bat. Show him something different than the person he’s used to seeing day in and day out—intimidate him, challenge him. He might think he’s the greatest top or the greatest bottom, but if you push your comfort zone by using what yourbest at to spark his attention you will become the best he’s ever had.
2) Make him feel like he’s corrupting you.
Part of the allure gay porn stars have is that they know how to make someone believe they’re innocent and vulnerable for corruption. This is what makes us want them so badly in the first place whether we realize it or not. We become hunters and they our prey. It’s an aspect in our DNA we can’t help but give in to. We want him so much more because he’s pure. As hard as it may be, make him think you’re pure and unstained. He’ll be first in line.
3) Have a “Look, Don’t Touch” policy (but don’t tell him about it).
It’s hot allowing a man see your body and letting his imagination do the rest. Cook for him in your underwear, do pushups in the nude, walk out of the shower in a robe with your hair dripping to your shoulders—spark his interest without throwing yourself at his crotch. Let him come to you while pretending you’re doing something totally innocent.
4) Make pauses mean something.
If weird breaks or pauses in between become awkward, it’s because they don’t mean anything. Turn it around by shaping them into tension, yearning; restart the foreplay, even if it’s just dirty talk. Never let the fuse die out.
5) Know what your needs are and let them come first.
You have to enter knowing what you want from him and what he needs to do to please you. This will add fuel to the tension while exciting both of you even more. You’re not selfish when you know what you want; on the contrary, you become willing to help him reach his personal goals too without limiting your own. Owning your intentions will make the experience stronger and sexier.
6) Keep a couple articles of clothing on.
It’s always hot to keep a few pieces on whether it’s socks, a shirt or even underwear that’s pulled down and hanging on your ankles. Personally I love the times when my man and I get so heated he doesn’t even have time to take his shirt off—I’m in him spread eagle with his tank still on. It’s pretty damn sexy.
7) Make sure you’re clean down there otherwise the fantasy is gone.
Trust me you can talk a big game all you want but if you are gross down there, the whole thing will be for nothing. One of the greatest things about gay porn is that all the bottoms are as clean as a whistle—they smell like roses in our heads. It’s a dreamlike aspect that takes a while to get, meaning you should get your ass in the shower pronto, douche and scrub. Don’t let him know the work you put into it—make him believe this is how you are on the daily.
8) Alternate between foreplay and intercourse.
Just because he’s inside you doesn’t mean you have to pick up speed to finish the race. You ought to alternate every once in a while: slip him out and jerk him off, makeout, turn over and let him play with you a bit—have intervals of buildup and tease. The payoff will be much better.
9) Commit to the role you want.
If you want to be dominant, don’t laugh at yourself. Commit to it as best as you can without betraying the person inside. Disingenuous behavior is such a turnoff during sex—it is not sexy to see a guy pretend to be bad when he’s truly a weakling. Whatever mood you want to bring to the table—spontaneous, intimate, gentle or jackrabbit—make sure you don’t fray from it.
10) Let him know you feel good when you feel good.
Don’t filter yourself. When he does something that feels amazing, let him know for God’s sake; otherwise he won’t understand your body. Never let him leave wondering if you had a good time. A man should always leave confident. When he feels like he’s doing a good job, he will aim to do even better.
Source: gayguys
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